Nothing that happens to us in this life is accidental. I have experienced more than once that Divine messages and guidance accompany us at every turn in life. Moreover, when you know how to listen, things flow easily, and transformation happens beautifully and effortlessly.
An important aspect, I believe, is to understand that we are not here to suffer. Suffering is, usually, a choice – in Bazi it is called self-punishment or punishment of ingratitude. The Universe is neutral; we are the ones who give the command for any change. Life evolves, and we evolve with it. And, to make it easier to understand, I will present my ideas through examples.
Let’s say you set an intention. You keep talking about what you will do, you say it out loud, or maybe you just think about it: “One day, I will change my job, I want to follow my dream, I dream of being… having my own business.” And maybe you even daydream about it, maybe you start preparing, learning something, searching for information – but in reality, you don’t take concrete action, because you don’t feel ready. Maybe you are afraid or cautious. Whatever it is, you keep finding excuses.
Another situation, another example, might be that you want to change something. You are in a toxic relationship – whether it’s a “friendship,” a relationship with a partner, or maybe with one of your parents or siblings – the problem is the same. You decide to change something or to walk away, but again, you always find excuses not to act.
The moment you have emitted a thought, maybe made a decision to change something or a situation at some point, that is the signal, the seed you planted for making that change. In the previous era, these planted seeds materialised more slowly. Since 2017, the energy has accelerated, and everything moves faster.
But let’s get back. At the moment of setting the intention, things start moving, fueled by your own energy. If you put hope, joy, love, courage into what you do, you will fuel things, and the seed will grow easily, your transformation will be facilitated, and the path smoothed. However, if you have planted the seed of change and feed it with fear, insecurity, doubt, and procrastination, things will still move, but your transformation will be painful.
Your path will be sprinkled with the emotions you emit, amplified. In the years when strong clashes, Fu Yin or Fan Yin, appear in your personal chart, these situations will trigger and transformation will occur. Everything becomes a major problem if you are not prepared, and if you are unlucky enough to also have a low vibration, suffering will intensify.
Before reaching the point of “disaster,” this Universe will send you all sorts of signs. A friend warns you about something, maybe in your favorite series you notice a similar situation. You might receive a call from your child’s school, asking you to make more time for them, which would imply changing your job. But you… will find other solutions. You will turn to your mother, or hire a nanny, and this only because you are afraid to act, to do what you intended when you planted the seed of change.
Let me remind you here: nothing is lost, everything transforms. Under the impulse of repetitive thoughts, analysis, reproaches you make to yourself. Reproaches like “I should have done this or that,” maybe more excuses you find, or maybe by blaming those who, in your eyes, have wronged you – you are only choosing suffering.
And as a human being, it is natural to have such a period, but not too long. Fear is clearly the first to take action and will be amplified by macabre scenarios. In reality, after the “evil” has happened, you should gather yourself as quickly as possible and look towards the future from a new perspective.
Every time, I personally ask myself this question: “What is positive in this situation?” Believe me, there is always something positive in any situation. Yin and Yang are present at every moment because everything is always in balance. And if nothing I say convinces you, I’ll repeat: everything is Yin and Yang in this Universe.
So, wherever you find yourself in life, always choose to use the question: “What is positive in this situation?” and allow the answer to reach you.
Learn to listen and go with the flow.
The Universe is always speaking — through signs, emotions, people, and situations. The more you resist, the more difficult the path becomes. But when you quiet the noise, trust your inner compass, and allow yourself to move with the energy around you, life unfolds naturally.
✨ Remember: The easiest path to success is alignment with the Universe. ✨
Instead of forcing doors open, let the doors aligned with your purpose reveal themselves. Your role is to stay present, aware, and courageous enough to step through them.
With joy Maria!


Draga mea Maria 💐💝
Câtă dreptate ai! Așa este. Eu, una, m-am recunoscut în această descriere.Îmi este greu să dau drumul, să las controlul, căci, cu cât îmi este mai greu sau frică, cu atât mai mult, cu îndârjire, caut să controlez EU situația.
A aștepta… sau a mă alinia cu Universul, a lăsa să curgă lin, să văd semnele… și chiar sunt așa de multe… tot caut… altceva.
Vă îmbrățișez, suflete minunateee! 😘💝💐
Cu iubire, recunoștință și respect,
Nicoleta
Mulțumesc 🙂